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Ellen A Sandrew's avatar

Hmmm....I guess none of my handwritten cards made your box!!! Just yesterday I was going shoeboxes of memories. Had alot of the same feelings also. Back in the boxes and back in the the cedar chest they were in, hoping one day my son will find them them and be amazed!

Pat Willard's avatar

Not true, have a handfull.

fran carleton's avatar

So heartwarming to read about all the memories, Pat. My in-laws had 17 grandchildren, and had a way of making each one of them feel special, often in handwritten notes or poems in birthday cards, or postcards detailing interesting places they visited. I keep most of these cards in a folder, and read them from time to time, and occasionally dig them out to share with our sons. We very much still feel the love in every word they wrote.

Pat Willard's avatar

Don't you kind of hear their voices when you read them? Like our ancestors have become little sprints sitting on our shoulders still beside us.

Vicki Smith's avatar

I have similar collections stashed around the house. One letter that I have was written to my grandmother from her mother and even though I can't decipher it I can't bear to toss it. It is truly hard to know what to do with so much family history!

Pat Willard's avatar

Doesn't it? I heard one of those declutter people say we owe it to the people in our wills to not burden with it. But I don't care. I'll be dead in and in my grave and won't feel guilty or heartbroken about it.

Kathy Napoli's avatar

So interesting and intriguing. Thank you. Sorry I had no luck deciphering the recipe either!

Pat Willard's avatar

A friend thought it seemed likea meringue based sweet. She's a really good baker so I kind of take her word. but she didn;t see the flour. I dont think readers liked that part from a lazy food writer but I'm trying to figure ot out.

Kate McDermott's avatar

I’ve a folder upstairs, too, but it pales in comparison to yours. Beautiful post.

Pat Willard's avatar

Thanks Kate. I keep thinking I could at least throw away cards with just signatures on them but then I remember what they were for. Seriously, what to do with them?

fran carleton's avatar

There is no question that we continue to feel their essence in our every day lives. We will never let go.